4 Effective Networking Strategies for an Introverted Remote Worker
As an introvert, I'll be the first to admit that networking used to be my worst nightmare. The thought of making small talk, attending crowded events, and constantly putting myself out there made me want to retreat even further into my comfort zone. But here's the thing: I knew that networking was crucial for my career growth. And I'm guessing you do too.
If you're an introverted remote worker like me, you're probably nodding your head right now. You want to succeed in your career, but the idea of "networking" makes you cringe. Well, I've got good news: you don't have to change who you are to build meaningful connections. Over time, I've learned some game-changing strategies that have helped me navigate networking as an introvert, and today I'm excited to share them with you. Let's dive in!
Try Networking Online
Let's face it, walking into a room full of strangers can be utterly draining for introverts. Sometimes, I’ll watch my vibe go from 100 to 20 just by conversing with people I don’t know. The pressure to make small talk and pretend to be comfortable? No thanks. That's why starting online is a total game-changer.
On social media, you get to control the pace and tone of your interactions while networking. You can take your time crafting responses and engage with others from the comfort of your own space. I can attest to the power of online networking – I've formed some amazing professional connections on LinkedIn, and it's been a total lifesaver.
So, how do you get started? Here's a simple tip, before reaching out to someone, scroll through their feed. You'll likely find clues about their interests and passions. Did they just land a new job or achieve a major milestone? Send a congratulatory message! It's a natural icebreaker and sets the tone for a meaningful conversation.
By starting online and doing your homework, you'll be well on your way to building authentic relationships that can take your career to the next level. No awkward elevator pitches are required.
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Have a networking partner
Eventually, you might need to brave those in-person events. That's where having a networking sidekick comes in. Attending larger networking events with friends or coworkers can make all the difference. Imagine having someone who's got your back, can vouch for you, and help get those conversations flowing. Going to a networking event with a partner will always give you the feeling of support and a little boost in confidence. Plus, if your partner is an outgoing extrovert, they can help break the ice and draw people to your shared conversation. It's a win-win! You get to tap into their social energy while still being able to recharge when needed.
Plan before you go
Let’s face it! If you don’t plan for what to expect in a social gathering as an introvert, I can promise you that you’ll be drained. In one of the networking meetings where I was meant to meet someone who will later become friends, I had to plot out 15 things we could talk about on my phone. Don’t judge me, it worked! There was no point in the meeting that we ran out of things to talk about. Try and prepare things that you could talk about before heading out for a networking event, maybe try and say it in front of your mirror. Did it come out weird? Don’t worry, just make a few changes and you are good!
Work on your non-verbal communication
The first non-verbal communication to work on is your smile, even without saying a word your smile says volume. It gives the impression that you are comfortable and welcoming. Even though you are trying to be welcoming, don’t fake your smile, make it natural. Body language helps you connect better. For example, your hand gesture while talking makes you more believable and it gives whoever you are connecting with the impression that you are confident. While maintaining eye contact helps affirm your attentiveness.
After all is said and done…
You know, the world might favor extroverts, valuing outspokenness and sociability often leaving introverts feeling like they're at a disadvantage. Our reserved nature can be misread as shyness or lack of confidence. But the truth is, as an introvert you need to learn how to harness some of those extroverted skills like speaking up and being ready for small talk, to make your voice heard where it matters.
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